Friday, July 5, 2019



Books: Another World, Another Reality

I love to read.  Books hold an extraordinary fascination for me.  I believe that one significant reason for this passion is that my father was an avid reader.  Whether it was a book, magazine, newspaper, letters, or studying the Bible, reading was one of his preferred daily activities. I wanted to be like Dad.

As a child, I recall that one of the best days of the week was Sunday.  Dad always bought The Daily News on our way home from church.  That day the newspaper was thick with stories, sales ads, and a colorful comics section which was my favorite.  It didn’t matter that I couldn’t read all the words, I was still able to follow the story through the sequenced drawings.  My favorite was Dondi, the orphan, followed by Dick Tracy and Beetle Bailey.  More important, I was sitting at the kitchen table reading the Sunday paper alongside Dad.

            In kindergarten I remember my teacher reading stories and Mother Goose Rhymes. After she read aloud, we had permission to visit the special reading corner and select any book we wanted, make ourselves comfortable and enjoy it.  Back then, kindergarten was fun.  I can’t pinpoint the exact age I discovered fairy tales, but I do recall the fever hit me hard. My favorites were the Hans Christian Anderson (The Princess and the Pea, The Emperor’s New Clothes, Thumbelina, The Match Girl, and others), and the Brothers Grimm tales (Hansel and Gretel, Snow White, Rumpelstiltskin, and more). When I read those books, I was in the story. I was the princess in a tower waiting to be rescued or the princess who outsmarted the evil dwarf, and of course, I was the one who lived happily ever after.  Those stories and others provided an escape into a different world that offered a possibility to be happy in spite of problems and evil people.

            As I got older, I kept progressing to other types of books that held my interest.  One book I remember well is Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. I was present in the lives of the four March sisters and understood their likes and dislikes.  I was inspired by how they faced the difficulties of life with steadfastness and uniqueness of characters. Reading was not only a pleasure activity, it was also a learning tool.  In the same vein, one of the sweetest stories I have ever read is The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett.  The story still fascinates me today, to the point that I have a copy of the book in my personal library.  I suppose the theme of overcoming adverse circumstances through true friendship and kindness is what appeals to me.  An abandoned garden comes to life under the care of the main character, Mary (who is only 10 years old when the story begins), and her new found cousin, Colin. The secret garden becomes a catalyst for the healing of the emotional wounds that both children have been carrying for some time.  The same way the garden blossoms, so do their lives and the lives of the adults around them.

            I could go on and on mentioning all the fabulous books I have had the privilege of reading and how my taste for them has evolved over the years through natural curiosity, maturation and formal education.  An example of this is that due to my university education in Puerto Rico, I was introduced to an untold number of novels, biographies and poetry written by renowned Caribbean, Latin American and European Spanish language authors.  Reading in Spanish continued to feed my soul along with the added bonuses of strengthening my identity as a Latina, enriching my vocabulary, and improving my writing.  However, most important, these experiences confirmed that reading has always been and will be a source of pleasure in my life.

            Have you read a good book lately?  Have you allowed yourself to get lost in a book?  Have the words on a page caused you to laugh, cry, sigh, hold your breath, or want to scream as you stumble down a muddy, dark road with the main character?  Every once in a while we need to go on an adventure that only requires we turn pages and allow ourselves to be transported into a different world, even if only for an hour or so.  It is a most exhilarating and renewing experience that does not have to cost much.  Try it.

The following poem is about the importance of reading in my life.


Reading


The power of reading is real,
I have experienced it many times.
When I needed to escape my reality,
I read books that transported me
to that happy-ever-after land
where my spirit was soothed.
When I needed to learn and grow,
I read books that allowed me to discover
the immense world around me,
and even the universe beyond,
and my spirit was nourished.
When I desperately needed to know
about life after death and
how to survive the grief of loss,
I read books that opened my eyes
to a mysterious, eternal world
that should not be feared,
and my spirit was healed.
When I needed to laugh or cry,
I read books that asked no questions,
made no judgments,
and graciously accepted my laughter,
or the tears that stained its pages,
and my spirit was comforted.
When I needed to make a new life for myself,
I read books that gently and profoundly prodded,
books that awakened a hidden self,
books that fed my hunger for knowing,
books that satisfied my craving for change,
and my spirit evolved.

During all those times of need,
be it known that I was blessed,
blessed to have people around me,
people who cared,
people who loved,
people who inspired and motivated.
But I also believe I was blessed to have books.
Thus, I need you to know again and again,
the power of reading is real,
I have experienced it many times.

 






Sunday, June 23, 2019

Dear Readers,

I have observed and experienced that many times people feel trapped in roles that cause them to feel sad and empty.  The surprising element is that some of the roles are meant to create happy and satisfying lives, but they don't.  It's time to examine our lives and change or modify the roles that hold us back and don't allow us to enjoy our lives to the fullest within our unique circumstances.





                         It’s Time

 I’ve been told by many to embrace life,
that I have the power to
live my life the way I want it to be,
not what others say it should be.
Again and again I have felt
confused, sad & fictitious,
leading a life that is often
empty and lonely.
It’s over.
The time has come to hang the
“Do Not Disturb” sign
on the doorknob of my heart
for everyone to see.
It’s time to discard the so-called
Master Plan of my life
and concoct a surprise about-face.
It’s time to remove those leeches
who try to siphon the little joy I have
by making me feel guilty
for what is out of my control.
It’s time to let those others meet
the genuine me who has been hiding
behind the curtain of falsehood
in pursuit of acceptance.
It’s time to meet the me who will
 try hard to embrace the ups and downs
of life and move on,
perhaps slowly and in a direction that is
not to everyone’s liking,
but nonetheless, moving on.
It’s time.

Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Remembering Dad

I have been editing my poems in preparation for self-publication in book form.  Among the poems, the following one is appropriate for this coming Father's Day weekend.  It also connects with the new poem I published last week, Pondering Life, because it supports the fact that when we love a person who is no longer physically with us, the essence of who she/he was still remains. Every time we think about the many happy and beautiful moments shared with that loved one, he/she lives on.



Legacy
You are gone!
Just like that!
Quietly, serenely, decisively,
knowing your destination.

So many times before
during your long,
drawn out illness,
we thought about it,
spoke about it,
imagined it,
but now it’s done.
You are gone.
The piercing pain of loss
breaks our spirit.

It is done.
You are gone.
But…then again,
not completely.
A part of you lives on
in each one of us.
You are present
in that discerning smile,
unfaltering walk,
and persuasive talk.
You are present
in how we view life,
in how we live life,
in how we share life.

Yes….for many,
you are gone,
but not for us.
The essence of who you were
remains.
That’s your legacy.
How comforting to know,
Dad,
you are still with us.