Saturday, May 24, 2014

I Will Survive

     

Sometimes she hid
behind large dark glasses
or wore floppy hats &
sweaters, even if it was hot.
She tried to hide
the black & blues,
the cuts & bruises
from her neighbors’ meddling eyes &
her family’s accusatory questions
until one day,
fear of imminent death forced her
to flee her home, young ones in tow.

For months she had planned,
scrimped & saved for
this decisive moment,
but she waited & waited,
perhaps believing his lies of change,
of never again, of I love you,
only to feel his inebriated fists and kicks
again & again on her body, on her soul.
Now she was convinced,
he will not change,
it will never happen.

Without warning or announcement,
without looking back,
she left on a cold Monday morning.
She left her beautiful house and
all it contained repeating over & over,
I will survive, we need to survive,
there has to be a better life.
And so began a parade of motels,
dirty & dingy cheap motels,
almost as bad as staying home
with him, she thought once,
but her mantra kept her going,
she had to survive,
for herself and her babies.

She struggled to find a job,
sufficient pay for child care,
food & safe harbor.
She bounced from job to job,
from motel to motel,
till one fateful day a helping hand
reached out to her.
The safe harbor home became
her refuge, her children were safe,
she was safe.
Through kindness, understanding &
time her wounds began to heal,
she took back control of her life,
she no longer blamed herself,
she uncovered and reconstructed
her battered self-worth.
Above all, she was able to
let go of him & her past.
She dared to visualize a better life,
it was a life of hard work,
nonetheless, a life filled with
peace & love & satisfaction,
a life worth living.



                                                                                    © Mildred Santiago 2014

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